Saturday, 20 July 2013

I WANT A PEN NOT PENIS


DON'T KILL A FUTURE FOR YOUR DIRTY HABITS, LET ME HAVE MY RIGHTS.......pen Not penis

NO TO UNDERAGE MARRIAGE NOW

Amidst the crisis situations in Nigeria, it is underage marriage that seems more pressing for debate by the Nigerian lawmakers; it has only shown that the lawmakers are obviously their lives to the fullest at the expense of the Nigerian citizenry. Lawmakers are paid to provide development but our present lawmakers have not ceased to provide misery of every kind. This is the case of supporting underage marriage; the adverse effects of this motion have been ignored with major thought given only to the satisfaction of man in the relationship.

Facts have it that child brides experience a higher incidence of domestic violence, marital abuse (including physical, sexual or psychological abuse) and abandonment. Underage marriage exposes the girl-child to maternal mortality and infant mortality rate; they are more likely to die in childbirth and they face the risk of contracting HIV. Some of them are usually within between age 7 and 8 and averagely below 15.
In some of the poorest countries, these girls are readied for early marriage and prevented from attending schools like male counterparts who eventually grow up to become men like these senators, idly passing bills that are adverse. They are also forced to drop out of school after marriage or marriages. It should also be evident that child brides are more likely to come from a poor family which should be a pointer that poverty is prevalent in Nigeria. Most of the husbands could be poor and once married, child brides are more likely to continue living in poverty.
If some people say that their religion supports underage marriage, then it leaves questionable thoughts especially when one of its effects could be death for the girl-child. I believe all religions support the good and wellbeing of every human being so I think people are using religion to support their unhealthy habits which is inexcusable.
 NO TO UNDERAGE MARRIAGE, A GIRL HAS ALL THE RIGHTS TO LIFE AND EDUCATION NOT PENIS

Thursday, 4 July 2013

Vengeful persuasion

Policemen attached to Adeniji Adele division have arrested a 22-year-old man in Lagos who allegedly kidnapped and raped a student of the University of Lagos, UNILAG, Akoka, for turning down his advances.
The suspect, Babajide Bashorun, was also alleged to have taken nude shots of his victim (names withheld) and pasted them on the internet with her real name, school, department and age.
Description: The victim with bruises
The victim with bruises
But the suspect claimed that the lady was his girlfriend. He admitted to have taken her nude pictures and gave them to his friends whose identities he gave as Aje Mayowa and Babajide Ademuyiwa, both final year students of Architecture also of UNILAG.
The incident, as gathered, occurred two months ago at 1, Ajose Street,  Enu-Owa area of Lagos Island.  But the female undergraduate was silent over the matter until her relations abroad who stumbled on the nude pictures on the internet contacted her mother in Nigeria, last week.
The victim narrated that the incident occurred on her way home from school for a weekend visit. She said that Babajide abducted her at the bus stop, dragged her into a car whose driver was an unknown face. On arrival at the suspect’s place, Babajide started beating her thereafter he and his friend raped her. The victim said that pictures were taken of her while bleeding; she claimed that he continued the beating when she made attempt to cover her face while he was taking the pictures. She escaped when she was left alone in the room; she also couldn’t tell anyone even her family members because Babajide had threatened to kill her if she did.
On his part, Babjide claimed that the undergraduate was his girlfriend, adding that they only had a fight on that fateful day, which had been resolved. He claimed that the victim had requested for money to buy an IPad which cost over N100,000. Because of his love for her, he managed to raise N70,000, insisting that he had advised her to stop some of her attitude which weren’t reasonable .
A fight ensued during the argument and he hit her and then took pictures of her and sent the pictures to his friends although he didn’t tell them to paste the pictures on the internet.

Police sources hinted that efforts were on to arrest Mayowa and Ademuyiwa had been alleged to have pasted the victim’s nude pictures on the internet, while  Babajide had been charged to court  for kidnapping, rape, conspiracy, attempt to commit murder, indecent assault, and assault occasioning harm.