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Saturday, 20 July 2013
NO TO UNDERAGE MARRIAGE NOW
Amidst
the crisis situations in Nigeria, it is underage marriage that seems more
pressing for debate by the Nigerian lawmakers; it has only shown that the
lawmakers are obviously their lives to the fullest at the expense of the
Nigerian citizenry. Lawmakers are paid to provide development but our present
lawmakers have not ceased to provide misery of every kind. This is the case of
supporting underage marriage; the adverse effects of this motion have been
ignored with major thought given only to the satisfaction of man in the
relationship.
Facts
have it that child brides experience a higher incidence of domestic violence,
marital abuse (including physical, sexual or psychological abuse) and
abandonment. Underage marriage exposes the girl-child to maternal mortality and
infant mortality rate; they are more likely to die in childbirth and they face
the risk of contracting HIV. Some of them are usually within between age 7 and
8 and averagely below 15.
In some
of the poorest countries, these girls are readied for early marriage and
prevented from attending schools like male counterparts who eventually grow up
to become men like these senators, idly passing bills that are adverse. They
are also forced to drop out of school after marriage or marriages. It should
also be evident that child brides are more likely to come from a poor family which
should be a pointer that poverty is prevalent in Nigeria. Most of the husbands
could be poor and once married, child brides are more likely to continue living
in poverty.
If some
people say that their religion supports underage marriage, then it leaves
questionable thoughts especially when one of its effects could be death for the
girl-child. I believe all religions support the good and wellbeing of every
human being so I think people are using religion to support their unhealthy
habits which is inexcusable.
NO TO UNDERAGE MARRIAGE, A GIRL HAS ALL THE RIGHTS TO LIFE AND EDUCATION NOT PENIS
Friday, 12 July 2013
Thursday, 4 July 2013
Vengeful persuasion
Policemen attached to Adeniji Adele division
have arrested a 22-year-old man in Lagos who allegedly kidnapped and raped a
student of the University of Lagos, UNILAG, Akoka, for turning down his
advances.
The suspect, Babajide Bashorun, was also
alleged to have taken nude shots of his victim (names withheld) and pasted them
on the internet with her real name, school, department and age.
The victim with bruises
But the suspect claimed that the lady was his
girlfriend. He admitted to have taken her nude pictures and gave them to his
friends whose identities he gave as Aje Mayowa and Babajide Ademuyiwa, both
final year students of Architecture also of UNILAG.
The incident, as gathered, occurred two months
ago at 1, Ajose Street, Enu-Owa area of Lagos Island. But the
female undergraduate was silent over the matter until her relations abroad who
stumbled on the nude pictures on the internet contacted her mother in Nigeria,
last week.
The victim narrated that the incident occurred
on her way home from school for a weekend visit. She said that Babajide
abducted her at the bus stop, dragged her into a car whose driver was an
unknown face. On arrival at the suspect’s place, Babajide started beating her
thereafter he and his friend raped her. The victim said that pictures were
taken of her while bleeding; she claimed that he continued the beating when she
made attempt to cover her face while he was taking the pictures. She escaped
when she was left alone in the room; she also couldn’t tell anyone even her
family members because Babajide had threatened to kill her if she did.
On his part, Babjide claimed that the
undergraduate was his girlfriend, adding that they only had a fight on that
fateful day, which had been resolved. He claimed that the victim had requested
for money to buy an IPad which cost over N100,000. Because of his love for her,
he managed to raise N70,000, insisting that he had advised her to stop some of
her attitude which weren’t reasonable .
A fight ensued during the argument and he hit
her and then took pictures of her and sent the pictures to his friends although
he didn’t tell them to paste the pictures on the internet.
Police sources hinted that efforts were on to
arrest Mayowa and Ademuyiwa had been alleged to have pasted the victim’s nude
pictures on the internet, while Babajide had been charged to court
for kidnapping, rape, conspiracy, attempt to commit murder, indecent assault,
and assault occasioning harm.
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